thankful

For all the things that I have said, loved or hated about Melbourne, it has brought me friends that I am thankful for.

Is it really the curse of the 10 year cycle?

I am still getting over the last one.

on certain generalisation

I remember watching 'up in the air' and the character george clooney played said that it's more efficient to use steoreotypes to your advantage. I wonder if it's the placebo effect, i.e. that I unconsciously wait for something to occur, and then say, see, that's how that stereotype started.

I couldn't help myself sometimes because, I have to agree, to a certain extent, that that was how it is. Today, it was one of those days, and I just need to step back, and not listen to those sweet nothings, and just judge people by their actions. It felt as if all those years, running a team, amounted to nothing.

It is one of those experiences, in which you take a step back, and slow down for others, but then the other person thinks that you are that slow, when in fact, you were slowing down for them, and then they move ahead and think that they are so far ahead, when in fact, you have already been there longer than they have ever known.

being a heartless bitch

I love being a heartless bitch sometimes, only to move on from evil peeps, especially those that you go 'I am so glad I got out of that relationship'.

I found this new term, negative energy vampires, i.e. people who suck the energy out of you because they don't have the energy to carry on with your lives and just download all their negativities on you. I am just sooo glad I got out of that.

Private-public life

A friend told me that managing her personal life was far more important than her career, and I realised that when that was sorted out, everything else actually falls into place.

Happy 2010

2010 will be a brilliant year. I know it.