So here's for today for what happened yesterday that I felt bothered and thought that it was spoiling my mood for the entire day, hence the 5 min limit.
I used to 'fong fei kei' quite a bit, and though it was unforgivable, I found that it is actually a clear indication that things / relationships are not working out. However, I was in constant denial that this lack of effort was actually more about me (a) not being interested (b) feeling obligated. So when somehow I was on the receiving end, I have decided, along with this 5 min rule, that I was going to streamline.
Because I could not find a better explanation for me making a journey and having someone tell me he/she could not meet because of some half-arsed excuse. Maybe it's karma for all the feng fei keis that I've done, but I'm glad in the meantime, I found people who mattered.
These are some of the best decisions I have ever made - this pruning and the five minutes rule, along with my low tolerance for people who turn up only in need.
Meanwhiles, ingredients for a fabulous Friday:
REITs, fish head, bkt, drive-thru, drums, cars, kopi-o ais, low traffic on the f1-bridge, all sorts of crabs, hell's kitchen, emerald hill, mojitos, HH dolls, alley bar, gollywogs, real fake goods, blackboards, streamlining, pretending to be PC phrases, low traffic on f1-bridge back.
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